Me: How you feeling after the catheter was removed?
Her: Awful. I just feel drained.
Me: I’ll be right over!
how I responded to BFF’s post-surgery blues
And not only did I pop over for a visit… I brought massage oil. Because nothing grounds us into our bodies and relaxes us more than a foot massage. Yes, please and thank you!
It’s been a long journey for her. Numerous surgeries, recoveries, pain, disappointment when the pain continued and there required yet another operation. It’s just been a damn lot on her and it’s hurting me to witness her struggling in the midst of this latest invasive procedure.
But I remain hopeful! The surgeon is new and passionate and learned, asks good questions, appears wise and caring. She offered a different approach – yes, invasive – but one which we hope reorganizes the mess of organs and scar tissue in there.
The real purpose of giving massage is to foster more depth of feeling for one another in order to bring out the love that often lies buried beneath the pain of everyday suffering.
Robert Calvert
We had a few hearty laughs together, me with her feet in my hands. I can’t love her more than I do right now. She’s the BEST.
This is friendship. We care for one another, through good times and bad, fearful moments, celebrations, frustrations, and operations. It’s what we do, right? We’re there for each other, holding hands, hearts, space…
and sometimes even feet.
If today you find yourself drained, frustrated, and in pain… consider a foot massage. They’re grounding, energizing, calming… it feels good to be touched, listened to, honored. I’m sorry you’re struggling, dear One. I’m here for you… and here’s a hug.
Edge-y, joyful, pondering…
Lisa
Intuitive Healer & Spiritual Guide
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