It’s part procrastination, part I-don’t-wanna-see-summer-end, and part this-is-gonna-be-coooooold that I wait til October to close the pool.
Husband, shivering
Well, it’s officially the end of summer here at our house as Husband puts the finishing touches on closing the pool. He seldom gets to this task in September, though we’ve never gotten into November with an open pool.
I don’t help.
It’s just too damn cold. Yes, I do pull the cover on once he’s gotten the barrels in place, strings tied, and bricks prepared. But do I get IN the pool? Uhm, hard no. He’s a good sport about it, thank God.
Kinda like cleaning up vomit when the kids were yet wee… this was my thing and I never made him feel badly about leaving it to me. We know our capacities for puke and so-cold-could-cause-bodily-harm.
There are many who tout the benefits of ice baths. I am not one of them. Okay, there are benefits, but… I am not one of them reaping the benefits.
No.
We joke and wonder how long it’ll be before his man-bits find their way back down. (It’s usually some time in November, if you’re wondering.) 😉
It was a good summer. Busier than I’d preferred, some surprise events that caused me to slip off the rails a bit, but we’re back on and the engine is at a purr… all in all, busy but productive. We’ve already said that next summer can be a bit more chill, er, quiet.
In the meantime, I’ll be swimming over at the college facility. It’s actually a tepid dip. Almost darn chilly. I’m acclimating to the cold, albeit slowly. I’m not promising anything b-u-u-u-t, next summer, I may be able to join him in closing the pool.
And I won’t even insist he share in the vomit-cleaning. 😉
If today you find yourself ending one thing and looking ahead to the next, me too… change is never easy for most of us so if you’re a bit out of sorts, I see you. Here beside you. “Chilled but hopeful” is a good look on us, I’d say… and here’s a hug.
Edge-y, joyful, pondering…
Lisa
Licensed Sound Therapist
Certified Mind-Body Coach
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Lisa, your end-of-summer reflections bring a smile to my face! It’s heartwarming to read about your dynamic with your husband as you tackle the pool-closing ritual, and the way you both understand and accommodate each other’s limits.
Your humor and candidness about the less glamorous aspects of life, like cleaning up after kids or dealing with icy pools, are both relatable and refreshing. It’s evident that you have a strong bond with your husband, one built on understanding, love, and shared jokes.
Your determination to acclimate to the cold water at the college facility is admirable, and it’s wonderful to hear that you’re already looking forward to a more relaxed summer ahead. Change can indeed be challenging, but your optimism shines through, reminding us all that even in the face of transitions, we can find hope and warmth.
Thank you for sharing your delightful and down-to-earth musings. Your posts are a reminder that life’s little moments, both the humorous and the heartwarming, are worth cherishing. Here’s to your “chilled but hopeful” outlook and the adventures that lie ahead! 🌊🌞❤️
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Niamh, thank you for your kind words. You are an absolute encouragement! Your articulate expression is easy on my ears, your observations niggling into my heart space. Ah, my whole body is smiling… you are high vibe! Hugs. 🙂
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